Children and Parents

This paper was triggered by news of the Juvenile Court in Surabaya. Reported that a child playing in the school with bees, bees put it into his cheek and then the bees stung his cheeks are. Finally the boy stranded in the judicial process, that although the verdict later acquitted but the days of terror that must have been mentally affected the child's soul.

Also about a man named Lanjar. It's unfortunate fate, the way around, his accident and died, was so Lanjar jail. Why is that? Of course not separated from panther car owners who were members of the police. The wife slammed into the side, struck by a car panther to death, the husband was thrown into prison. In short it. Fate? maybe.


I was reminded by the method of learning the parents first, my method is hate and I've written repeatedly on this blog as a wrong method. Our parents (who obviously my parents still) used to often say the word, "watch out, then I'll tell the police officer" when we do not think. The method is still the program I see when I've hit high school, conducted by my neighbors when the child their children would not eat.
The way it wrong! Instill unwarranted fear of children, obviously will not provide any benefits, not educate the child as well. This method will only lead to a lasting impression on the child in whose name the police that it was scary. Yet the nature of pemolisian is to protect society, not the method that just does not support this?
However, recent developments, particularly when it appeared the case, I was thinking, too, lest what the old people we used is a smart preventive efforts to protect the child from the arrogance of power wrapped in police uniform, huh? Could be ..
Selecting Friends for the Children
These subtitles was not smart. I hate that word. Children are free to choose anyone who wants to be friends. I wish so. Let him free, mature in his search, including the search for a friend who considered accordingly. We just enough to give the outlines of a friendship if not harmful. And perhaps if there are symptoms reminiscent to the negative direction, prohibiting the negative rate was deemed alarming. Really, I wish so.
But this development makes me think, the kids with all the world like him, with the try-try, of course, allows the child to do things that even outside of our maturity of reason. Or if not called in outside standard-grip style adults. Like they say, hide and seek, there is no sense of embarrassment for them to hide in places which felt strange adults, such as in a holster his grandfather when the grandfather was a game of chess, or in her mother's skirt when the mother was hanging clothes, and so forth. With a world like that, so perhaps a child-like play tossing the mud and got in his face.
In consideration of it, I was thinking, "maybe my son should not play with her son the police". Nothing, but if my child must follow a traumatic trial like that, I would not be able to forgive myself. Oh of course I also will not be able to forgive people who make my child go through that, but would gimana again, that person must have the power. So, avoid alone. Make friends with fellow commoners only problem. A cool-cool it is.
Nuff said. Ric times if the mailing-list. Already, the sentence is enough to explain, no need to explain anymore. Until the police to clean up themselves, to fire the people who apply to arbitrary, it is still relevant. So.
let's make friends with children who are not just police